Marriage takes intentional effort, just as physical fitness does. When couples choose to work out together, they’re not just building stronger bodies; they’re building a stronger bond. Fitness becomes more than a routine—it becomes shared time, shared goals, and shared growth. At My Spouse Is My Best Friend , we believe connection doesn’t always happen over candlelight dinners. Sometimes it happens on a walking trail, in the living room doing squats, or at the gym, encouragin

Black History Month is more than a reflection on the past; it’s a celebration of the living legacy we continue to build every day. And at the heart of that legacy is Black love . Black love has always been revolutionary. It has survived generations of adversity, systemic injustice, cultural shifts, and personal trials, yet it continues to thrive. From marriages that weathered slavery and segregation to modern-day partnerships built on faith, friendship, and purpose, Black lov

There’s something about being snowed in that slows life all the way down. The roads are quiet, plans are canceled, and suddenly it’s just you, your spouse, and a whole lot of time together. For some couples, that sounds cozy. For others… a little intimidating. The truth is, snowed-in days can either create tension or deepen connection; it all depends on how you handle them. Here are a few simple ways to make the most of being snowed in with your spouse. 1. Set the Tone Early

Each year on Martin Luther King Jr. Day, we pause to honor a man who courageously called a nation to love, justice, unity, and service. Dr. King is remembered for his leadership in the civil rights movement, but his message reaches far beyond history books and marches. His words and witnesses speak powerfully to our homes, our relationships, and our marriages. Marriage, like social change, requires intentional love, courage, sacrifice, and a commitment to something greater th

Why Do Couples Avoid Certain Conversations? There are conversations most couples know  they should have but quietly hope to avoid. Topics like money, intimacy, unmet expectations, faith, past wounds, parenting differences, blended family dynamics, or emotional needs often sit beneath the surface. They don’t disappear; they wait. And over time, what goes unspoken can slowly pull couples apart. So why do loving couples who genuinely want a strong marriage avoid these conversati

A new year always brings a sense of hope. It whispers of fresh starts ,  clean slates , and new beginnings . For married couples, the new year isn’t about becoming perfect; it’s about becoming more intentional  with one another. Whether last year was full of joy, filled with challenges, or a mix of both, the beauty of a new year is this: you get to begin again—together. God’s grace doesn’t run out at midnight on December 31st; it meets us fully in every new season. A New Year

Every January, we talk about new goals, fresh starts, and becoming better versions of ourselves. We set resolutions for our health, finances, and careers—but often forget one of the most important areas of our lives: our marriage . This year, instead of making separate resolutions, what if you made one shared resolution as a couple ? A resolution not rooted in perfection—but in intention . The Resolution: Choosing Each Other on Purpose Marriage thrives when both spouses decid

Christmas has a way of slowing time—at least for a moment. The lights glow a little softer, familiar songs stir old memories, and hearts seem more open to reflection. Yet for many married couples, the season can feel more stressful than sacred. Between shopping lists, family expectations, financial pressures, and packed calendars, it’s easy to lose sight of the person standing beside you. At My Spouse Is My Best Friend® , we believe Christmas is an invitation—not to perfectio

Romance doesn’t disappear after marriage—but it does  require intention. After the vows are exchanged and real life settles in, romance can quietly move to the background. Careers, kids, blended families, ministry, and responsibilities can leave couples exhausted. Yet Scripture reminds us that love is meant to be nurtured, not neglected. “May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.”  — Proverbs 5:18 Romance after marriage doesn’t have to be ex

Every couple talks — but not every couple connects . You can live under the same roof, share the same routines, and still miss each other emotionally. That’s because there’s a big difference between hearing  your spouse and listening to them. Hearing is automatic. Listening is intentional. Marriage grows stronger when couples slow down long enough to understand one another, not just react to the words being spoken. Real listening builds trust, safety, and closeness — the fou

When you think about what keeps a marriage strong, you probably think of love, trust, communication, or even shared values. And yes—those matter. But there’s another ingredient that often gets overlooked, even though it quietly holds marriages together every single day: Laughter. Not the kind that comes from watching a comedy show (though that helps), but the deep, genuine, “only we understand this” laughter that happens between two people who truly get  each other. 1. Laught

Thanksgiving isn’t just about the food on the table — it’s about the hearts gathered around it. And when you’re married, one of the sweetest gifts is getting to slow down and be present with your spouse. This holiday is the perfect chance to pause the busyness, look across the table, and say, “I’m grateful for you.” Not just for the big moments, but for the everyday partnership — the shared laughs, the inside jokes, the comfort, the prayers, the teamwork, and even the little

Thanksgiving is more than a holiday — it’s a heart posture. And for couples, it’s an opportunity to slow down, reconnect, and prepare your home and your relationship for a season filled with gratitude. But let’s be honest: the days leading up to Thanksgiving can also bring stress, packed schedules, family dynamics, and a long list of things that need to get done. That’s why preparing together  matters. Here are a few ways couples can enter the Thanksgiving season with unity,

Researchers say that when you’re driving through a heavy rainstorm, you should never stop in the middle of it — even if you have to crawl forward at 1 mile per hour. The reason is simple: if you stop, you’ll stay in the storm longer. But if you keep moving, even slowly, you’ll eventually drive out of it and find clear skies again. That same principle applies to marriage. Every couple faces seasons of storms — moments when communication breaks down, tempers flare, or life just

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.”— 1 Corinthians 13:4 (NIV) Marriage is one of God’s greatest gifts — but even the strongest couples face moments when patience runs thin and tempers flare. The truth is, love isn’t always effortless. Sometimes it’s a choice we have to make when emotions want to take the lead. When we pause and choose kindness instead of criticism, we invite God’s spirit into our marriage. It’s in those quiet

Let’s be honest — we’ve all fallen into the “How was your day?”  routine. It’s well-meaning, but after the 500th time, it sounds more like background noise than a real connection. Marriage isn’t just about sharing a home, a bank account, or a Netflix password — it’s about staying emotionally in tune with your best friend. This week, try breaking out of autopilot mode with a few intentional questions that spark real conversation, laughter, and maybe even a little vulnerability

Every marriage has a story—but not every marriage walks in God’s  story. When two people say “I do,” they aren’t just joining hands; they’re joining callings. Marriage was never meant to be two people simply coexisting—it’s a divine partnership designed to reflect God’s love and fulfill His purpose on earth. The beauty of a purpose-driven marriage is that it turns everyday moments—prayer, laughter, challenges, forgiveness—into opportunities to live out God’s plan together. 1.

Ah yes, the age-old question: “How do I change my spouse?” If you’ve ever tried, you already know—it’s like trying to get Wi-Fi in the wilderness. You might think you’re close, but nope… signal lost. We all have our moments of thinking, “If they would just stop doing that one thing, everything would be perfect.”  Spoiler alert: they’re probably thinking the same thing about you. Here’s the truth bomb: you can’t change your spouse.  (I know, ouch.) But you can  influence them—

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