Getting Ready for Back to School—As a Couple and a Family

The school bell is about to ring, and with it comes a whirlwind of schedules, homework, carpool lines, and after-school activities. But before you dive into the busyness of the season, take a moment to reset—not just as parents, but as partners.

Back-to-school season isn’t just about the kids—it’s an opportunity to strengthen your marriage, align your household, and lead your family with intentional love and unity.

1. Reconnect Before the Rush

Schedule a back-to-school date night or coffee chat. Ask each other:

• How can we support each other in this season?

• What worked well last school year—and what didn’t?

• How can we grow as a team?

  
  

2. Set the Tone Spiritually

Consider starting a family devotional time—even if it’s just one morning a week. Pray together for:

• A peaceful school year

• Strong friendships for your children

• Wisdom and patience as parents and spouses

  
  

3. Create or Refresh Rhythms

Every household needs structure. Back-to-school is a perfect time to:

• Reinstate bedtime routines

• Create chore charts or homework zones

• Designate screen-free family time

  
  

4. Share the Load

Don’t let one spouse carry the mental load alone. Share calendars, divide responsibilities, and check in weekly as a team. Support might look like:

• One of you prepping lunches, the other handling pickup

• Rotating bedtime duties

• Sharing reminders with grace, not frustration

5. Celebrate the Season

Back-to-school doesn't have to be stressful—it can be a fresh start. Celebrate it! Take first-day photos, write love notes in lunchboxes, and speak life-giving words into your children and each other.

Final Thought

This season, don’t just survive—thrive. Lead your family with love, joy, and intention. A strong marriage creates a strong home, and your unity as a couple is the anchor your children will lean on. You’ve got this—together.