Don’t Stop in the Storm: A Lesson for Marriage

Researchers say that when you’re driving through a heavy rainstorm, you should never stop in the middle of it — even if you have to crawl forward at 1 mile per hour. The reason is simple: if you stop, you’ll stay in the storm longer. But if you keep moving, even slowly, you’ll eventually drive out of it and find clear skies again.

That same principle applies to marriage.

Every couple faces seasons of storms — moments when communication breaks down, tempers flare, or life just feels overwhelming. It’s easy to want to pull over, shut down, and wait for the “rain” to stop on its own. But in marriage, staying stuck in silence or bitterness doesn’t make the storm go away; it only keeps you in it longer.

When you choose to keep moving — to pray together, to talk even when it’s uncomfortable, to forgive even when it’s hard — you’re moving toward healing. Even if progress feels slow, movement is what brings you through.

Some storms might be brief and gentle; others may test every ounce of your faith and patience. But remember this: the same God who controls the weather also strengthens marriages. He can calm the storm within your hearts if you trust Him and keep going.

So the next time the rain starts to fall in your relationship, take a deep breath. Don’t stop. Even if all you can do is inch forward in love and grace — keep moving. The sun will shine again.

Reflection Question: What’s one small step you and your spouse can take today to “keep moving” through your current storm?

Scripture to Remember:

“The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” — Exodus 14:14 (NIV)