The Resolution: Choosing Each Other In The New Year!

Every January, we talk about new goals, fresh starts, and becoming better versions of ourselves. We set resolutions for our health, finances, and careers—but often forget one of the most important areas of our lives: our marriage.

This year, instead of making separate resolutions, what if you made one shared resolution as a couple? A resolution not rooted in perfection—but in intention.

The Resolution: Choosing Each Other on Purpose

Marriage thrives when both spouses decide, again and again, to show up for each other. Not just when it’s easy—but when it’s inconvenient, uncomfortable, or unfamiliar.

It’s not about doing more—it’s about being more present.

Choosing each other on purpose means:

• Communicating with grace, even during disagreement

• Protecting your friendship, not just your roles

• Praying together before problems escalate

• Extending forgiveness instead of keeping score

Questions to Ask as a Couple This Year

Before setting goals, take time to reflect together:

• What does our marriage need more of this year?

• Where have we grown—and where have we grown distant?

• What habits would strengthen our connection?

• How can we better honor God through our marriage?

Honest conversations create space for deeper intimacy and renewed commitment.

Simple Couple Resolutions That Make a Big Impact

You don’t need a long list. Start with one or two intentional commitments:

• We will pray together at least once a week.

• We will schedule intentional time together each month.

• We will communicate openly instead of shutting down.

• We will speak life over each other daily.

Grace Over Perfection

There will be missed moments and unmet expectations. That doesn’t mean you’ve failed—it means you’re human. Give yourselves grace. Growth in marriage happens over time, not overnight. When you fall short, return to prayer, conversation, and commitment.

Let Your Marriage Be the Testimony This Year

Your marriage isn’t meant to be perfect—it’s meant to be purposeful. As you step into this new year, may your resolution be rooted in love, strengthened by faith, and guided by God’s grace.

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