A Little Romance After Marriage Goes a Long Way

Romance doesn’t disappear after marriage—but it does require intention.

After the vows are exchanged and real life settles in, romance can quietly move to the background. Careers, kids, blended families, ministry, and responsibilities can leave couples exhausted. Yet Scripture reminds us that love is meant to be nurtured, not neglected.

“May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.” — Proverbs 5:18

Romance after marriage doesn’t have to be extravagant. It’s found in the small, meaningful moments that say, “I still choose you.”

Romance Is Built in the Everyday

Romance isn’t only date nights and getaways—it’s:

• Holding hands during prayer

• A thoughtful text in the middle of the day

• Laughing together after a long day

• Choosing kindness during disagreement

These simple gestures strengthen emotional connection and reinforce friendship—the foundation of a lasting marriage.

Why Romance Still Matters

Romance keeps marriage from becoming transactional. It reminds your spouse that they are desired, valued, and pursued. For couples in second marriages or blended families, romance helps reinforce security and trust, creating a safe space where love can grow again.

Keeping Romance Intentional

Try asking each other:

• What makes you feel most loved right now?

• What’s one small way we can connect this week?

• How can I show affection in a way that matters to you?

Marriage thrives when romance is intentional, not accidental.

Final Encouragement

A little romance after marriage isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence. When your spouse is your best friend, love continues to grow, deepen, and flourish through every season.